Friday 17 January 2014

MONOGAMY BEYOND SAMENESS


Relationship can be wearisome, if it suffers lack of varieties. Many-a-time, we clearly know what to do, but we actually don’t take a step to do it. It is worthy of note, that we choose to be in this partnership, and yes, sometimes take it for granted and we even unintentionally destroy it in the attitude of complacency. Do we take time to check if the love for our partner is appreciating every day, since it is the yardstick to foster a cutting-edge relationship?  There shouldn’t be any bargain to that.

To live beyond sameness in our relationships, amazing things like or beyond what we used to experience at the beginning of married must not cease. Such things as we have known before must appreciate. Remember, marriage itself is a school where you get the certificate before you start; a school where you will never graduate; a school without a break or a free period; a school where no one is allowed to drop out; a school you will have to attend every day of your life and a school where is there is no sick leave or holidays. It’s indeed a school founded by God on foundation of love.


It is important therefore, that you never go to sleep until you have completed your assignments for the day – the assignment of making it right with your spouse.  And if tempted to quit, find courage and continue until you can make him/her long for an imagery of what tomorrow's experience will look like.

My friend, dash off the monotony in your monogamy! Take good time to talk about a great vacation that must feature with time in a bigger picture and about creating a plan full of amazing things to reignite the flame in your relationship, the moment you suspect it’s going down. Don't be busy with things that will short-live your noble relationship with your spouse.


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