How beautiful somethings would have been if we have made Spirit-led decision. Some errors en route our path perpetually all because we have dashed off the God factor! Of a truth friends, talking now from my experience I have assumed for God severally on some things pertaining to life issues, since is just my feeble assumption; I have failed in many things and learnt my lessons in the hard way. Thanks to God, God's mercy was still at work in me to bring only God's originality, so that flesh will not glorify itself.
See, many careers, businesses, marriages, relationships and even ministries have suffered the same fate since the individual or group have decided to go all the way to get things done without the Holy Spirit leading him/her, know today that anything whatsoever that the Holy Spirit is not the sole factor will altogether lead to spiritual bankruptcy and another lost is that such achievement will not have eternal value. Is a matter when the so called believer will say God said when God has not spoken at all. I have seen brothers who proposed to many sisters at a stretch; telling everyone of them God said when is only flesh that is at work in him. If such brother continues in this syndrome pretty soon even ordinary nature will sing for him "a shame lyrics" that he must dance to in the face of all the sisters he has made advances to both in words and disposition.